06/02/2026

Reflection of You: A Complementary Play of Selfishness and Betrayal

너를 닮은 사람
JTBC, 2021, 16 rész
Genres: drama, melodrama, thriller
Directed by Lim Hyeon-wook 임현욱
Original work: Jung So Hyeon's novel of the same name
Screenplay Yoo Bo-ra 유보라
More information: HanCinema, MyDramaList


* Warning: This post contains spoilers! *


I can states with certainty that this title hides one of the most nerve-wracking dramas of recent years, even though it shows nothing more than a deep psychological immersion into the dangerous whirlpools of romantic relationships. "A tükörképed" (Your Reflection)—says the official Hungarian title translated from English, and the Korean original means nearly the same, though interpreted slightly differently: "Someone Who Looks Like You." Our reflection (especially if it shows our inner self alongside our exterior) can take many forms, depending on whether our mirror is perhaps cloudy or if we are looking into a distorted one. It is not even certain that we must look into a physical mirror to see ourselves, for as the Hungarian poet Attila József wrote: "In vain you bathe your own face in your self, it can be cleansed only in that of others." [1]—which also means that we recognize ourselves, our virtues, and our faults in the reflection of another person, and perhaps it is from one another that we can hope for redemption.


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

Two women stand at the center of the drama. To help us see whether they mirror each other or recognize themselves reflected in the other, we receive further visual assistance. Since the drama is set in the world of fine arts, the director boldly utilizes color symbolism: one of them is almost never seen without a green coat, while the red color dominates the other’s wardrobe. In the color wheel, colors opposite each other are called complementary colors; red and green are such a pair, representing a particularly high-tension, dramatic, and provocative duo—a perfect visual representation of the relationship between the two protagonists. Throughout the drama, we will encounter numerous other instances where the characters' states of mind are expressed through colors, paintings, or sculptures—consider the mention of the shifting shades of yellow or its blending with black at a certain point in the story.

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Screenwriter Yoo Bo-ra worked based on the novella by writer Jeong So-hyeon, and since both are women, perhaps the drama became intentionally female-centered, showcasing women of various personalities and ages alongside interesting male characters.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


The plot could be summarized very briefly: two friends become enemies when it is revealed that the older one stole the younger one’s boyfriend, who then launches a campaign of revenge against her. One might think that this oft-told situation couldn't contain much novelty, but that is not the case. Reflection of You is a masterpiece in its category—in terms of its psychological portraiture, its storytelling method, the gradual unfolding of the conflict, and the calculated dosing of how different characters influence the story. As a result, we become part of a consistently tense story full of unpredictable turns, whose pacing, imagery, and every backdrop are the result of high-quality work by the entire crew under director Lim Hyeon-wook. We will speak more on the artistic elements later, but we must highlight the dramatic, expressionistic use of landscapes and majestic natural phenomena, or the similar lighting of interior spaces.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

Actress Go Hyun-jung brings to life the older female figure, Jeong Heejoo, who is a strange mixture of affected humility and pride in her achieved status. Despite her modest family background, she managed to marry into a chaebol family. Her husband would be the heir, but his mother considers him unfit for the position precisely because of his marriage to her. Although the husband stands by Heejoo, neither can stem the tide of the domineering mother-in-law’s family-destroying activities, through which she almost appropriates their children to raise them according to her own ideas. It is difficult to decide whether Heejoo is a good mother; she worries constantly, yet notices nothing of her children’s troubles. She is mostly occupied with maintaining her "dream position" as a Cinderella-turned-princess, for which she endures being treated as a servant by her mother-in-law, even if she gets a little bored in her spare time.


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

While she begins to think about self-actualization on her husband's advice, the brilliantly young and vibrant Goo Haewon (Shin Hyun-been) enters her life, bringing new colors to her world. The girl is a promising art student under whose influence Heejoo begins to learn to draw, proving to be surprisingly talented. Haewon dreams of becoming a successful painter and living happily with her love, Seo Woojae (Kim Jae-young), who soon also becomes involved in Heejoo’s art lessons. But it is at this point that the idyllic relationship between the two women breaks.


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

Woojae is a true, unconventional artist. Immensely talented, he refuses to compromise in his creative work, yet he still struggles with the shadow of his even more legendary father. He seems content as Haewon’s partner, who urges him to tie their lives together, at least on paper. However, the naive girl’s attention is eclipsed by a much larger "prey": the significantly older, seemingly unreachable Heejoo, whose delicate features the man discovers while sketching her. Interestingly, there is a 17-year age gap between the two actors in real life, which, though perceptible, dissolved entirely in the chemistry between them. The young man is as beautiful as a statue and knows no inhibitions; consequently, the "model wife"—who, despite her wealth, remains open to adventure—cannot, or perhaps truly does not want to, resist his advances. Soon, an unexpected turn occurs: Heejoo leaves for abroad to assist her child studying there, and Woojae disappears from Haewon’s life without a trace, leaving her to search for him in desperation.

We pick up the thread of the story many years later, following a long temporal gap. Heejoo, now living back home, sees Haewon reappear in her life, though she hardly recognizes her. The younger woman becomes like a nightmare to her, stalking her family members one by one and conducting what seems to be a punitive campaign against Heejoo for reasons not yet entirely clear to us. Soon, Woojae reappears on the scene as well, completely vulnerable to Haewon, as he cannot remember anything from his past due to an accident.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


During this cat-and-mouse game, both women manipulate the young man lost in uncertainty. Like Woojae, we, the viewers, must piece together what happened during the lost years through fragmentary flashbacks. In the present, the three of them are connected by a new location: the gallery, where they are forced to collaborate. Woojae seeks to rebuild his professional career, Heejoo has become a successful painter and author, while Haewon has abandoned her artistic ambitions. Numerous supporting characters enter the story, each reflecting the two female protagonists' fates through their own lives. However, they are all independent characters in their own right, and listing them all is nearly impossible. Each represents some form of problematic situation: the narrative touches upon school and domestic abuse, unfit parents and spouses, adolescent and adult friendships, voluntarily undertaken guardianship, guilt and the tyranny of accusation, corruption, vulnerability, and the endurance of arbitrary power. Questions of faith arise as we visit churches, yet a strange little pub serves as a kind of earthly Purgatory, where the owner is capable of easing the burdens of the souls who wander in. Alongside all this, we closely follow Lisa’s (Kim Su-an) adolescent loneliness, her realization of her situation, and her defiant struggle to find explanations—which serves as a coming-of-age story wrapped within the drama.

In their own way, the monster emerges from both women: Haewon becomes lost in her own pain, feeling entitled to anything by giving it free rein, while Heejoo arrogantly believes she can step over anyone, as her status protects her from the necessity of facing her actions. Anguish and madness mingle in both of them, and the performances of the two actresses bringing these characters to life cannot be praised enough. In the force field between them, the drama’s two main male figures—who also have their own scores to settle with each other—attempt to hold their ground.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

Although Heejoo’s husband (Choi Won-young) appears to be a likable, caring husband and father, he is in fact playing a part, just like his wife. The interesting thing about his character is that we spend the entire time waiting for him to finally play his ace; however, he starts off as spineless toward his mother, and then—whether out of genuine love or cowardice against upsetting the status quo—he clings to appearances so stubbornly that by the very end, he is no longer even dealt a hand.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


Yet Woojae’s situation is the more difficult one, and Kim Jae-young demonstrates incredible sensitivity in showing every shade of the stages the man endures. Throughout the drama, we see him in three fundamentally different states. In the flashbacks, we find a different young man than the slightly arrogant one we first met, who was fully aware of his charm and lived by his own rules: here, he is a kind and deeply feeling lover capable of sacrificing everything for personal happiness, even accepting a child whose paternity he cannot be certain of. In the second stage, all of this vanishes into thin air, and it is almost painful to watch his hesitation drowning in the helplessness of his vulnerability. Even so, he recognizes that both women are trying to use him for their own whims, and even if his consciousness is clouded, his feelings still act as a compass. In the third stage, when he realizes what has happened to him, he loses his sanity; despite seeing the irreality of it, he stubbornly tries to reclaim everything he was cheated out of. Even with this layered psychological portrait, compared to the female protagonists, Woojae’s figure is much more sketched out, and at times one feels that his transformations and the events surrounding him are—not entirely justifiably—subordinated to the women's story.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


However, we can observe an extraordinary directorial ingenuity: the elements of Woojae’s personality that remain in the shadows are expressed through his art. Upon his return, before they even meet in person, Heejoo sees his sculptures first without knowing the identity of the creator. "The Meaning of Silence, from Drawings to Sculpture," says the title on the upcoming exhibition’s brochure, and through the sculptures, we meet an infinitely lonely, sorrowful, introverted Woojae with a blurred face, giving us the impression of someone thinking deeply about the matters of life.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

The sculptures seen in the drama possess such elemental power that I became curious about their actual creator. After some investigation, I found an article listing the artists who contributed the drawings, paintings, sculptures, ceramics, and even the clothing worn by the characters: Bae Hyung-kyung, Park Dae-sung, Go Young-hoon, Oh Soo-hwan, Kim Deok-yong, Ethan Cook, Lee Kyung, Shin Soo-jin, and Go Hyun-jung. [Source]

The appearance of the various works within their environment was handled with extraordinary care, whether in home or office interiors, studios, or gallery exhibitions. The same thorough consideration went into the costumes and even the animated graphics of the title credits, which transformed the words of the title into a visual poem.

(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)

Among the works, we can see authentic pieces as well as those created to evoke a specific artist's style. Woojae’s sculptures are clearly the works of Bae Hyung-kyung (including originals and replicas); in fact, the evocation was so detailed that toward the end of the series, Woojae experiments with reddish-toned sculptures similar to those seen in Bae’s exhibitions (who is also a female artist).


(Author’s screenshot from Reflection of You.)




[예감시] 예술감상의 시작
– [갤러리 Tour]배형경/ “ Color Weight , 彩色荷重”展_갤러리시몬.2019.11.07~2020.01.11


Looking into the mirror and the urge for self-reflection applies not only to the characters but to the viewers as well. As the story races toward a finale that brings redemption for some and tragedy for others, there is no element of the drama that isn't heart-wrenching to experience. In the labyrinth of human relationships, we sometimes lose our own way, or see those around us similarly led astray. Meanwhile, we sustain wounds, inflict wounds, survive, or perish. Most painfully, victims remain on the field who are not necessarily innocent, yet did not deserve their fate. I feel somewhat the same about the drama's conclusion—my heart aches most for the one who was ultimately eliminated from the game.

The lead actors are so excellent that every facial expression and gaze fills the massive force field, the tension of which makes us lose track of time. The child and nearly-adult actors (Kim Su-an, Shin Hye-ji, Kim Dong-ha) are great, as are the chaebol matriarch (Kim Bo-yeon), the psychiatrist wife who finally takes her revenge (Jang Hye-jin), her wretched husband (Hong Seo-jun), the various mothers, fathers, and grandfathers (Lee Ho-jae, Seo Jung-hyeon, Seo Jin-won), the vibrant friend (Park Sung-yeon), the repentant brother (Shin Dong-wook), the mother turned parasite by grief (Kang Ae-shim), the wonderful bar owner (Kim Sang-ho), and the gallery director (Kim Ho-jung).

Finally, mention must be made of the series' music, which underscores the images with great sensitivity and delicacy—and occasionally with the necessary drama—and the same applies to the soundtrack songs.





[1]
József Attila: No Shriek of Mine (Nem én kiáltok)
Translated by Frederick Turner & Zsuzsanna Ozsváth
Magyarul Bábelben website



Disclaimer: All images used in this article from Reflection of You are owned by JTBC and are used here under Fair Use for the purpose of criticism and scholarly review.


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This article was originally written in Hungarian for Ricemegatron Expert Film Blog and subsequently translated into English for Ricemegatron Expert: Korean Screen Insights. The English version was created with the assistance of Gemini AI, focusing on preserving the original tone, structure, and critical style of the author.





















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